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5 Mindset Shifts That Helped Me Become a Calmer, More Confident Dog Mom

5 Mindset Shifts That Helped Me Become a Calmer, More Confident Dog Mom
I used to live in a constant state of “am I doing this right?”—especially when it came to raising our puppy, Waffles. Every choice felt like a high-stakes decision: what to feed him, how to train him, how much to socialize, when to start grooming… you get the idea.
And don’t get me started on all the advice—Google, vets, breeders, pet store employees, TikTok trainers, random neighbors at the dog park. Everyone meant well, but the noise was overwhelming.

I wanted to be a great dog mom. I wanted a happy, healthy pup. But somewhere along the way, I realized I was stressing myself out so much that I wasn’t even enjoying him.

Here are the mindset shifts that changed everything for me—and might just help you breathe a little easier too.

1. Progress Over Perfection

This was a biggie. I used to think I had to do everything just right or I’d mess up my dog for life. (Dramatic? Maybe. But it felt real at the time.)
Now, I give myself permission to grow with my dog. I learn, I adjust, and I forgive myself when I make a mistake. Dogs are resilient, and guess what? You’re doing better than you think.

2. No One Right Way to Raise a Dog

There’s not one perfect food, training method, or schedule that works for every family. And that’s okay.
Once I stopped trying to fit into someone else’s version of “ideal dog parenting” and focused on what worked for us, I felt instant relief. You’re not failing if your routine doesn’t look like that influencer’s on Instagram. Your dog doesn’t need perfect. Your dog needs you.

3. Simplify the Decisions

I used to stand in the pet food aisle with three options in my cart, reading labels like I was decoding the Da Vinci Code.
Now? I trust myself more. I’ve learned how to read labels and spot red flags, and I don’t chase trends—I choose what fits my dog’s needs, my budget, and my values. Done.
(If you’re still spinning in that aisle, girl, let me help. It doesn’t have to be that complicated.)

4. Your Energy Matters More Than Your Expertise

This one hit me hard. Dogs are incredibly intuitive—they pick up on our stress, our worry, our confidence (or lack of it).
The more I calmed down, the more my dog did too. I didn’t need to be an expert—I just needed to show up with calm leadership and love. That’s what makes you a great dog mom. Not a perfect one

5. Every Season Has Its Wins (and Its Challenges)

Puppyhood isn’t forever. Teething, potty training, and “zoomies at 11pm” won’t last forever.
But neither will the snuggles, the tiny paws, or that adorable way they follow you everywhere.
Now, instead of wishing hard seasons away, I try to be present. To laugh more. To document the messy, imperfect moments. Because they’re the ones I miss most when they’re gone

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or just plain exhausted—you're not alone. You love your dog fiercely, and that’s what matters most.
The calmer I became, the calmer my dog became. And it all started with choosing a mindset rooted in grace, simplicity, and trust.
You’ve got this!  And if you ever need a guide, a nudge, or just someone to say “you’re doing great,” I’m here. 🐾

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Importance of Socializing Your Puppy: Nurturing Your Pup's Confidence

Importance of Socializing Your Puppy: Nurturing Your Pup's Confidence

As a first-time puppy mom, I vividly remember the excitement and joy of bringing home my furry bundle of joy. From the moment we met, I knew I wanted to provide the best possible life for my little furry companion. One aspect of puppyhood that quickly became apparent was the importance of socialization. In this blog post, I'll share why socialization is crucial for nurturing confidence in our beloved canine companions.

Meet Sophie, a first-time puppy mom whose heart overflowed with excitement and joy the day she brought home Max. As Sophie and her pup embark on their journey together, they quickly discover the importance of socialization. Let's follow Sophie and Max as they navigate the world of puppyhood.

A New Beginning
The day Sophie welcomed her puppy into her home was filled with anticipation and butterflies in her stomach. As they settled into their new routine, Sophie realized that socialization would play a key role in helping her puppy adjust to his surroundings and develop into a well-rounded dog. From encounters with unfamiliar people and animals to exploring new environments, socialization became a DAILY ADVENTURE for Sophie and Max.

The Importance of Socialization
Sophie soon learned that socialization wasn't just about having fun—it was essential for Max's emotional and behavioral development. By exposing him to a variety of experiences in a positive and controlled manner, Sophie was helping Max build confidence, resilience, and good behavior. From visits to the park and playdates with other pups to outings at pet-friendly businesses and training classes, each new experience brought Sophie and Max closer together and enriched their bond.

The Risks of Not Socializing
Reflecting on their socialization journey, Sophie realized the importance of not only the positive experiences they shared but also the potential risks of neglecting socialization. Unsocialized dogs may struggle with FEAR, ANXIETY, AND AGGRESSON making everyday activities challenging and stressful for both them and their owners. By prioritizing socialization, Sophie was giving Max the best possible start in life and setting him up for success in the years to come.

Embracing the Journey
As Sophie and Max's socialization journey continues, Sophie is reminded of the countless memories they've created together—the joy of watching Max make new friends, the pride of seeing him overcome obstacles, and the love and companionship they share each day. While socialization may have its challenges, the rewards far outweigh the risks, and Sophie wouldn't trade this journey for anything in the world (and neither would I)!

To all the puppy parents out there embarking on this incredible journey, I encourage you to embrace the importance of socialization and make it a priority in your puppy's life. By providing them with positive experiences and opportunities to learn and grow, you'll be helping them become confident, well-adjusted dogs who bring joy and companionship to your family for years to come.


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How to Choose the Right Puppy Food (Without Losing Your Mind)

How to Choose the Right Puppy Food (Without Losing Your Mind)
Bringing home a new puppy is one of life’s greatest joys—and biggest learning curves. Between potty training, puppy-proofing, and sleepless nights, choosing the right food might feel like just one more overwhelming decision. The pet store aisles are packed with options, and everyone from your vet to your neighbor has an opinion.

But feeding your puppy doesn’t have to be confusing. As a Certified Canine Nutrition Coach, I’m here to simplify the process and help you feel confident in your choices. Here are five practical steps to choosing the right puppy food—without second-guessing yourself or falling for clever marketing.

1. Look for a Named Protein as the First Ingredient The first ingredient listed on a dog food label should be a clearly named whole protein like chicken, turkey, beef, or salmon. Avoid vague terms like "meat," "animal by-product," or "poultry meal." Your growing puppy needs high-quality protein to support muscle and brain development.

2. Understand What "Meal" Really Means Contrary to popular belief, "chicken meal" or "lamb meal" can be nutritious and protein-rich—as long as it's a named source. The word "meal" simply means the moisture has been removed, making it more concentrated. What you want to avoid are generic versions like "meat meal" or "animal fat."

3. Avoid Common Fillers Many commercial dog foods use corn, wheat, and soy as inexpensive fillers. These ingredients can be harder for puppies to digest and are often linked to allergies and sensitivities. Look for foods where whole meats, vegetables, and nutrient-dense ingredients make up the majority of the formula.

4. Ignore the Buzzwords Labels like "natural," "premium," "vet recommended," and even "grain-free" can be misleading. These aren’t regulated terms and don’t guarantee quality. Instead, read the ingredient list and look for an AAFCO statement to ensure the food meets basic nutritional standards.

5. Watch How Your Puppy Responds Your puppy's poop, energy levels, coat, and appetite are your best indicators of whether their food is working. Soft or inconsistent stools, excessive itching, or lethargy can all be signs that it’s time to try a different formula.

Bonus Tip: Keep It Simple You don’t need to buy the most expensive brand on the shelf or jump into a raw diet overnight. Feeding better can be as simple as upgrading ingredients, adding healthy toppers, or understanding how to read a label.
And remember: you don’t have to find the perfect food right away or commit to one option forever. 

Nutrition is a journey, and there is always room for improvement as you learn more about what works best for your pup. The most important thing is to do the best you can for your dog today, in this moment. Don’t let fear or overwhelm cause you to freeze or give up. Progress over perfection is the key to raising a happy, healthy dog.

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You’re not just filling a bowl—you’re building a foundation for your dog’s lifelong health.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
Join my free Facebook community, Raising a Happy Healthy Puppy, for more tips, support, and encouragement from other dog moms like you.

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How to Keep Your Dog Cool During a Heatwave—Even Without Power

How to Keep Your Dog Cool During a Heatwave—Even Without Power
🐾 As a dog walker and someone who works closely with pets every day, I know just how tough the summer heat can be—especially when the power goes out. Our dogs (and other furry friends) rely on us to help them stay safe, cool, and comfortable. With temperatures rising and heat waves becoming more common, I wanted to share a few tips I use myself to keep pets cool—whether I’m out on a walk with them or caring for them at home during a power outage.

1. Keep Pets Indoors & Limit Activity

When the temps are soaring, staying inside is often the safest bet. I adjust my walking schedule based on the forecast, and I always monitor the pavement temperature before heading out.

If you’re home during an outage:

  • Keep your pets in the coolest room possible.
  • Shut the blinds and use battery-powered fans if you have them.
  • Let in a breeze during the early morning or evening hours.

2. Fresh, Cool Water is a Must

Hydration is key. At home, keep water bowls filled with fresh, cool (not ice-cold) water. I also like to toss in a few ice cubes or even frozen broth cubes when I’m caring for dogs in hot weather—it keeps them interested in drinking. There are even bowls like the Coldest Dog Bowl designed to keep your pups water colder longer.

3. Help Them Chill Out (Literally!)

If you’ve got tile or hardwood floors, that’s usually where your pup will head to cool down. You can also:

  • Place a damp towel or cooling mat in their favorite spot.
  • Let them rest on a wet towel or pop a chilled water bottle (wrapped in a towel) into their bed.
  • Use cooling bandanas or vests if you have them—some dogs love them!
4. Use Light Mist or Damp Towels

If your dog seems too warm, try gently misting them with water or wiping them down with a cool, damp cloth. Focus on areas like the paws, belly, and ears—these help release body heat more quickly.

5. No Car Rides Without AC

Please never leave your dog in a parked car—even for a minute. On a 90° day, the inside of a car can hit over 120° in just 10 minutes. If you’re running errands during an outage or heatwave, it’s safest to leave pets at home in a cool spot.

6. Know the Warning Signs of Overheating

As a pet care provider, I watch for these signs on every hot walk or visit:

  • Heavy panting
  • Lethargy or wobbling
  • Bright red gums
  • Vomiting or diarrhea
  • Collapse
If you ever see these symptoms, act fast: move your dog to shade, offer water, wet their paws/belly, and call your vet ASAP.

7. Build a Pet-Friendly Emergency Kit

Power outages can last longer than we expect. A few things I recommend having ready for your pets:

  • Bottled water
  • Extra kibble or canned food
  • Portable, battery-powered fan
  • Extra leashes, towels, and a misting bottle
  • Any medications and vet info
I hope these tips help you feel more confident keeping your pets safe during heatwaves and unexpected power outages. As someone who cares for pets daily, I know how much peace of mind it brings to feel prepared—and you’re not alone on this journey!

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How to Get Your Puppy (or Dog of Any Age) to Stop Jumping on People

How to Get Your Puppy (or Dog of Any Age) to Stop Jumping on People
Is your puppy bursting with excitement, causing them to jump on you—or, even worse, onto guests? While jumping may seem cute at first, it’s a behavior that can quickly become an issue, especially as your puppy grows. Whether you're training a young pup or breaking the habit in an older dog, this behavior can be redirected into calm greetings with the right approach.

Dogs often jump to greet or get attention, but this habit can be dangerous for small children, cause injuries, or simply become annoying. The good news is that, with consistency and patience, you can teach your puppy (or adult dog) to stop jumping on people, making their greetings more enjoyable for everyone. Here are five simple steps to help you get started:

1. Understand Why Puppies (and Dogs) Jump

Puppies often jump to greet people and get closer to faces for affection. It’s their way of saying “hello” and seeking attention. While it's an instinctive behavior, you can teach them more appropriate ways to interact. Understanding that your puppy jumps to get attention is the first step in helping them learn how to greet you—and others—calmly.

2. Stop Reinforcing the Behavior

Puppies jump because it works: they get your attention. Even if you push them down or say “No,” that’s still attention. The key is to remove any attention when your puppy jumps. Immediately turn your back, cross your arms, and avoid eye contact. When ALL FOUR PAWS are on the floor, give them calm praise and attention. It’s crucial to remain consistent—no exceptions!

3. Teach an Alternative Behavior

Instead of jumping, teach your puppy to sit when they greet you. This gives them an action to focus on that’s incompatible with jumping. Whenever your puppy approaches, ask them to sit, and only offer attention or treats (these are my favorite treats to use because they re healthy nd the dogs love them) when they remain sitting. Start this training as early as possible, but remember, older dogs can learn too! The more consistent you are with asking for “sit,” the quicker they will understand that sitting brings rewards, not jumping.

4. Use Rewards and Praise

Positive reinforcement is key to teaching your puppy. As soon as they stay calm or sit when greeting you, reward them immediately with praise, a treat, or affection. Gradually phase out treats as your puppy becomes more consistent, but keep using verbal praise like “Good puppy!” to reinforce the behavior.

5. Practice With Guests

It’s one thing to stop your puppy from jumping on you, but you’ll need to train them not to jump on others as well. When guests arrive, inform them about the training. You could even have a jar of treats outside your door for the guests to have in hand when they enter. Ask them to ignore your puppy if they jump and only offer attention when the puppy is sitting or calm. You can also use a leash to maintain control during greetings, especially with young puppies. Ask your puppy to sit while you greet the guests, then reward them for staying calm.

To make this process even easier and to make greetings easy for everyone,  I create this free PUP IN TRAINING sign. 
By displaying this sign at your front door, you’ll give visitors clear instructions on how to interact with your puppy—making training smoother and more consistent.

Here’s what the sign includes:
  • A gentle reminder for visitors to ask for a sit before giving treats.
  • Instructions to turn away if your puppy jumps.
  • A space to write your puppy’s name for a personal touch.
Simply print, hang it up, and let your guests be part of your puppy’s success!
Grab it HERE
Breaking the habit of jumping is easier when your puppy is young, but it’s never too late to train an adult dog! With consistent training, positive reinforcement, and involving everyone in your household, your dog will learn to greet people with all four paws on the ground.
Consistency is key—soon, jumping will be a thing of the past, and your dog will greet both you and guests with calm, friendly energy.

I invite you to join my free group...

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💛Because every pup deserves a full bowl and a full heart. 


 
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Meet Linda May Myers

 
Linda is a devoted dog enthusiast, Canine Nutritionist, professional dog walker, and proud dog mom to Waffles, her beloved golden rescue pup. As a LEO wife of over 22 years and a “retired homeschool mom” to two amazing young adults—one of whom is now a professional dog groomer—she finds deep joy in helping families welcome and raise puppies that truly become part of the family.

A follower of Jesus, Linda brings love, compassion, and purpose to everything she does. She believes dogs aren’t just pets—they’re furever family members. Her journey with dogs has taught her how much joy, comfort, and healing they bring into our lives.

Linda is passionate about helping pet parents make confident, informed decisions about what to feed their dogs—especially during the critical puppy years. She’s committed to breaking down the overwhelm around dog food labels, marketing myths, and special dietary needs so families can raise nourished, happy, and healthy pups from mealtime to lifetime.

A self-proclaimed N.E.R.D. (Never Ending Reading Diva), Linda is always learning and loves sharing what she discovers to empower others. She understands the challenges of busy households and offers practical, heart-centered support that makes puppy parenting feel doable—and joyful.

Her mission is simple: to help keep dogs in loving homes and out of shelters by supporting families in raising happy, healthy dogs—starting at mealtime and lasting a lifetime.
Through this work, she’s also building a business that gives back—funding rescues, foster networks, and community programs so more dogs can find—and stay—in their furever families.

Because every dog deserves a full bowl and a full heart. 💛






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